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STEPPING OUT FROM BEHIND THE WALL 2: SUPPORTING SOMEONE WHO IS IN AN ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP

Tracy Chapman’s song Behind the Wall was the metaphor I used in Stepping Out From Behind The Wall: Acknowledging Male Privilege and It’s Connection to Violence Against Women.  Chapman sings of hearing a female neighbour being assaulted by their male … Continue reading

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STEPPING OUT FROM BEHIND THE WALL: ACKNOWLEDGING MALE PRIVILEGE AND ITS CONNECTION TO VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN

WARNING: 1st paragraph has violent depictions of real life events. Tracy Chapman is mostly known for her classic song Fast Car.  It’s her song Behind the Wall that makes me think of incidents at Canadian universities in the last few … Continue reading

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SHE’S ON TOP: CELEBRATING EROTIC WRITING: COCO LA CREME READS FROM “SHE’S ON TOP”

She’s On Top: Celebrating Erotic Writing has been a great week!   Collaborating with CoCo La Creme and her very willing bottom was one of the best ideas I’ve had.  CoCo and bottom were energetic, excited, honest, open, and wiling … Continue reading

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SHE’S ON TOP: CELEBRATING EROTIC WRITING: INTERVIEW WITH RACHEL KRAMER BUSSEL + PHOTO ESSAY OF COCO LA CREME PLAYING TOP TO A VERY WILLING BOTTOM

Rachel Kramer Bussel is the editor of the book She’s On Top as well as over 25 other erotic anthologies including Spanked, Bottoms Up and The Mile High Club.  Rachel also writes the bi-monthly sex column The Lusty Lady for … Continue reading

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PICK YOUR BATTLES WISELY: LIFE LESSONS APPLIED TO WRITING

Last weekend I walked away from a guy trying to start a fight with me.  I wasn’t scared; I wasn’t outnumbered; I wasn’t tired, sick, or recently injured.  I was doing what was the smart thing to do: avoid confrontation … Continue reading

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SHOWING UP PART 2: HUMBLE TIPS ON WRITING

A couple of days ago I wrote about Showing Up.  It’s a concept that has been on my mind for a while.  I relate it to commitment.  After challenging someone last year who was in a position of power and … Continue reading

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SHOWING UP

An interview I saw on TV two days ago with a former gangster has sparked lots of contemplation in me the last couple of days.  The interviewee had brown skin like me, a colonial name like me, and was in … Continue reading

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KURDISH WRITER AVA HOMA READS FROM “ECHOES FROM THE OTHER LAND”

Meeting Ava Homa to tape her reading from her collection of short stories Echoes from the Other Land was fun.  We chatted literature, publishing, writing, and of course, reading.  Coffee, sun, and laughter filled a two hour session.   Enjoy … Continue reading

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INTERVIEW WITH KURDISH WRITER AVA HOMA

Ava Homa is author of Echoes from the Other Land  which was just nominated for the the world’s largest short story award: 2011 Frank O’Connor International Short Story Award. Ava is a Kurdish-Canadian, writer-in-exile, with two Masters’ degrees one in English and Creative Writing, … Continue reading

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ECHOES FROM THE OTHER LAND (STORIES) BY AVA HOMA

Echoes from the Other Land (Stories) By Ava Homa Review by May Lui Reading the stories in Echoes from the Other Land, I found myself absorbing and learning perspectives and realities that are both similar and very different from the … Continue reading

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